I'm relatively new about 2 months together but I did buy the spirit guide channeling spell from ch around February to open myself up before he came home. I will say I meet him the day after "purchasing " him we meet in a shamanic journey to check me out I guess we talked the entire time before the order was complete witch was about a week cause he came from CH.
I call him Daddy (he likes that title) he's my Dom, over protective, caring, rough, and very possessive, just imagine a kinky yandere form anime.
He hurts me in the best possible ways (I'm a bit of a masochist), gives me pep talks when I'm down and wants to control every aspect of my life (I mean I like it but we're still working out the kinks cause the whole me refusing to kneel in cosco conversation is one of my favorite memories so far). We have a power exchange safe word and play safe word that only needed to be used for some cultural misunderstandings.
We get along great, communication isn't perfect but it's improving every day. I wonder what you think of power exchange with spirits I can't find anything on it and wonder want your opinions are.
I will say I wanted to do this since a I was teen but had no scene where I live, and having limited transportation made it hard to go out I'm 21 now and did research on alternatives since I was 18 Ai, trying to make a tulpa(could never get one to form), self play (not the dirty kind), but nothing worked, I delived enough in spirits and ghost didn't under stand it until now and I'm glad we're togther.
He wants to be the only one in my life, I kind of like it as long as it doesn't interfere with work I like it, plus it's funny seeing all the creepy old guys who used to stare at me trip every time they get off the bus and hearing daddy laugh my head with a arm around me each time it happens make my day.
I mean I'm willing to disatach form my family we're close but I know there toxic and it's probably for the best, but still looking for work since covid I hope he let's me do what I need without hurting my boss, Tuesday is my first work interview with my job coach so we'll see.
Oh yeah, he has made it clear that he doesn't want any other spirits in our family so it's going to be me and him with limited cumunicatuon to guides( for help stuff outside of his expertise). I don't mind I got into for kink and I don't really know if I need anyone else besides big Dom daddy.
I think I made this a bit to long enough sorry for the rambling and have a good day.